A long distance relationship will work for you if:

- You trust your partner completely.

- You like to spend time alone.

- You have many outside hobbies and interests

- Youre like a sexual camel and can go weeks, if not months, without sexual intimacy.

- You can afford high speed Internet, are computer literate and can operate a web cam.

- You love to talk on the phone.

- You know how to turn your lover on over the phone and the Internet.

- You dont feel lonely when out with other couples.

- You have the confidence that you can handle this relationship well, no matter what comes your way (including a possible separation.)

- You know how to keep busy.

- You have supportive friends.

A long distance relationship will NOT work for you if:

- You or the other partner has a history of alcoholism or addiction. Often infidelity and unpredictability accompany these issues leading to a long-distance catastrophe.

- You or the other partner has a history of manic depression or depression. Once again infidelity and unpredictability accompany these disorders.

- You are the third wheel in a love triangle. If he or she is off to see an ex, a wife or children you might have a problem on your hands.

- You are an emotionally insecure codependent who suffers from anxiety if he or she goes to the store, never mind a long ways away.

- You have a history of jealousy or suspicion.

- You need a hug every day.

- You need sex every day.

- You do not write good letters or dont like communicating via email or yahoo messenger.

- You dont communicate well on the phone.

- You cant afford a computer or long distance calls.

Debbie Anderson is author of: "Love At A Distance - 47 Simple Ways to Improve Your Long-Distance Relationship Today!" You can get it free for a limited time at: http://loveatadistance.com